Whats a wife to do when she feels like the man of the house and she feels her husband is the woman?

I think my husband and I have our roles reversed with the jobs around the house and in the bedroom.


I don't know what to do with him anymore.


Yesterday I mowed the yard while he watched Dr. Phil.





Can men go thru menopause? Because he sure whines like a woman?|||If you had a studly guy on the side, you'd tolerate Mr. Mom just fine!|||The good side of that situation is that you have the freedom to do what you see needs to be done. If he is simultaneously restricting you because you are a woman, then that is bad.





In the bedroom, just tell him that you think that you've forgotten what romance is because he doesn't seem to be using sweet talk and seduction much anymore. Tell him straight out that you want him to make you feel seduced with more foreplay and more attention to your mood.





And if you don't want to do a chore, for God's sake, don't do it. Let the grass get high. Hear him comment about it. Let him decide it's time to cut the grass. Don't even bring up the subject and don't talk to him about it. Just say things that need to get done need to get done. Don't discuss a timetable. Don't step in and do it. Look at all the chores you want him to do that way. Only do the things you feel you will be very comfortable doing, in your woman's role. And only do those things.|||all marriages are different. each of us marries those who compliment us. If we are strong women we pick weaker men to balance our strengths


check out how he treated his family before he married you...that will reveal alot ...and allow you to react accordingly





evidently you discovered this a while "after" marriage.,perhaps you had this notion that the guy always takes the masculine role and is johnny on the spot in being Tim the tool man taylor as well as your personal porn star.


but, not always so. Those handsome men turn into couch potatoes and beer bellies if they are allowed to do so.


there is a saying................" a body at rest tends to remain so"





you can shut down what ever he is watching and hide the cord until things are done around the house.....


from a truck coil wire to a comp port modem.......sometimes drastic measures need to be applied to keep a house going.You are not going to change the way men think, but, if I were stuck mowing the lawn while my husband was watching tv...............there would be no means of watching that darn thing until he had helped around the house.....


the tv would be a luxury to him..................and until i got the amount of work out of him that was needed for me to be able to watch tv .......TOO....(.with him), he would be staring at a dark screen





when men begin to act like teenagers, lay around and do nothing, .................I would begin to treat them as such...and allow them "no" entertainment until all work was done.


too many men marry, to gain a free maid....................as long as you remain one, he will remain =


that body at rest that tends to remain so|||Your husband is very lucky, he has you. If he doesn't do the lawn you do it, great punishment. You are not using your powers right. Get this book or cd:





The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage CD: Preface and Introduction read by Dr. Laura Schlessinger [Audiobook,|||you need to stop doing, he is thinking you like to do all the work...he could be lazy Give him a list of things to do.Get him to make you some ice cream|||Start creating situation for him to "man up"...otherwise you're going to resent him.|||I'd spank his little as* and tell him to get supper ready and when he's done with that I'm going to take him upstairs and abuse him sexually for hours....that's just me though....