I'm blessed enough to be surrounded by beautiful women (two young daughters, a beautiful wife, and even a crazy female Golden Retriever).
What advice would you give me to being the best father to my girls, and the best husband to my wife?|||Try to be their friend, but a parent at the same time. Spoil your wife, make everyone jealous of her. When your girls get older, do not judge them, and thats sounds obvious, but might be hard later in life. Listen to them and love them, you have the attitude, and you seem to have the will, good luck =)|||Get a lounge chair and fall asleep|||Always let them be #1 in your life. Spend as much time with them as possible, just always be there when they need you. It's really simple, just love them with all your heart! :)|||I love that there are men out there who really care. Just spoil them all rotten! But seriously, just really listen to them as much as you can. That's all women really want.|||You need to be the kind of man you would want your daughters to marry. It's that simple. |||You already have a great attitude.. I think your doing just fine! =) Bless.|||Pray as hard as you can. And expect not to get the bathroom as often as you'd like. LOL LOL|||Just be there for all of them emotionally "which women tend to get at times" and physically. Them knowing that you are always there and have their back is worth more than anything in the world. Dont let the estrogen floating in the air get ya down! Good Luck! |||love them,don't neglect them. when they say they need space,give them that,but listen when they talk.
|||Been there, done that. Except I had to get a male dog to help balance the universe. -lol|||you don;t have to do anything special - being the only guy - you stand out already|||As a husband keep your romance runing find a way to surprise her from time to time as she your lifetime partner, at the same time spend as much with your daughters, don't let that special moments go by. Once they are grown up, you may not get that chance again. As for the retreiver, I'm sure you know what to do.|||Women are complicated... I know, I'm one of them! My dad was a really strong supporter, financially. My grandfather was a really strong supporter, emotionally. I think to be the best father... it's nice if you can balance those two. Yes, a dad should be the one to provide for his family, but it doesn't stop with your pay check. Your daughters %26amp; your wife both need to have someone they can come to with their feelings... and feel accepted. Try to be involved with their lives %26amp; their interests, even if it's not all that interesting to you. My dad never missed a cheerleading competition... now I know he'd rather be at home watching a football game, but he was always there! You must also make them feel safe... let them know that you will protect them to the best of your ability %26amp; stand up for your family. So many families have to worry about divorce... I think the best thing you can do for your family is to show your children how much you love their mother! Remember, they will most likely follow your example. You are their father. As far as being a husband goes, never let your passion %26amp; love fade. This life isn't permanent, so let your wife know exactly how much you care. Never take her for granted, and let her know how much you appreciate her. Being a mother and a wife isn't easy... never let her go unnoticed!!! I think it's amazing that you are getting advice on this! You are definately on the right track! God bless you %26amp; your family!!!|||I'm one of three daughters and my dad handles it pretty well! While we were young, he embraced the interests we developed in common (like sports, cars, and so forth) but didn't force hobbies on us. He also did his best to understand and be supportive of girl stuff (PMS, boy troubles) rather than steer clear out of discomfort. |||be a father to your girls and a husband to your wife. It seems to me you have it good so what is it that you wanna know? Be more specific.|||Be prepared for when you friends come over and you have just spent the day playing beauty shop with your daughters and your nails are painted and have hair bows in your hair.|||My dad was the lone guy in a house of women, and the best thing he did was ensure us in everyway possible that there was nothing he wouldn't do to make sure all of his girls were happy. Whether that meant that he created little outfits for our stuffed animals, or braiding our hair before school...he let me feel like there was nothing I could not do...He wasn't shy about his love for my mom, and he would dance with her on Saturday mornings when we were all in our pajamas...having my sister and I witness our parents' love for each other filled us with this freedom and fearlessness in our adult lives with regards to love.
My advice? Be wildly in love with your wife, and give your daughters the perfect example of what they should demand from any man they give their hearts to. Make it hard for other men to live up to the standard you give. Because a daughter will form her own future romantic relationships based on the example of her father...so make that the best one you can-it's the best gift a man can give to his daughter. |||Spend time with them together and individually. Protect them from wrong choices by telling them the hard lessons of life. A father figure for a girl growing up is instrumental for them to make proper choices as they mature. Your rewards will be many if you really get to know them. Just because they are girls doesn't mean they can't catch a ball (dog not included). Let them know all about you, about your dad, your grandpa. Keep them close to your heart and let them know you are always there for them. A man's best friend, should not be limited to his Golden Retriever (don't tell the dog I said that.)
If I made of list of questions pertaining to girls...I bet most fathers wouldn't have a clue on the answers:
1. Who's their best friend?
2. What is their favorite color?
3. What is their favorite hobby?
You get the picture...know them...know them well.
Good luck on winning that "Father of Year" award!
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