Women were meant to take care of the home and the children not men. The man is to be the head of the household.|||As christians, we need to respect the authority that has been placed on us. The head of the woman, is the man. The head of man is Jesus. And the Head of Jesus is Jehovah god. Most men abuse how this authority is given making woman more prone to disrespect this order. The authority that was given to men was to be delivered with love, not because of obligation. If men were to establish their authority like how Jesus established his authority over the christian congregation, all things would go smoothly and we would all be happy. in the end, the man who over does his privileges will get a serious talking from the one above him.|||The spiritual head of the household that is, which you can still be whilst looking after the kids.|||yeh maybe that was true in the 18th century, get a grip. Why shouldn't women be able to have a carea and why can't men be with their kids and spend time with them? and if any man told me he was the head of the house he can start packing.|||Oh that's Victorian thinking ,, and a load of bollocks too .. And I am a man .|||to each his own.... it works for some families and for some it doesnt personally i feel it isnt a religious problem rather a personal family issue|||is that what your women make you think also.? wow how close we are in our thinking....|||LMAO religion is a load of crap. It leads to people thinking like that! Where in the bible does it say that? Not to mention the work that goes into being a housewife/husband, on a monatary scale (if they were to be paid for it) is valued in the 拢30k region. Housewives and househusbands are doing just as valauable job as the person going out and earning hard cash.|||Being head of the household you can still be a house~maker, it's an important job, why do you need to justify looking after the house? the children? the home? I think what you are looking for is to justify NOT having to participate in home~making and you are looking for excuses to be lazy. Home~making is hard work and if there are children, it should be all hands to the pumps.
Brian T is right, he's a good husband and father, he's the man, he's the daddy.|||the true job of a man is to do what ever needs be to take care of his family.
Most of the time, working is the best thing, but it's not always an option.
My wife makes the money in our house, I am home during the day, I take care of the kids, I clean the house, I wash the clothes.
I assure you, I am more of a man than you could even hope for.
By the way, I work too. I work steady midnights, but my wife makes much more than I do, and I have to do all that house work %26amp; take care of our youngest, who is 3, with about 5 hours of sleep a day.|||We use the words partners now, and like any other partnership you do the best thing that works for the two of you, some women are more assertive than men, this can be the case much of the time as opposites attract, i don't think this is a problem if you can accept the role you are taking on,and also money is not the only way to provide for your family|||Yes, if you see your assumptions as a particular interpretation and not the final word.
Just ask yourself how a woman would view your ideas - or are you a woman yourself who can't take the freedom offered by God to those who are Christians? (In Christ there is neither male nor female ...)|||Not true. If you will care to notice, Eve was taken from Adam's side. Not from his head to rule him. Not from his feet to be trample on by him (literally too). No! His side--to be equal with him.
True definition of a father/husband:
Head of the Family Firm. The home is an institution of God. God designed that the family circle, father, mother, and children, should exist in this world as a firm. (Even though we ignore God's plans). The wife looks to him for love and sympathy and for aid in the training of the children; and this is right. The children are his as well as hers. E G White--The Adventist Home
Furthermore, what good man would standby and watch the love of his life labour under the burden of chores and responsibilities and does nothing to help her--where's his love--in his words?|||Say's who?|||when men stop acting like children and act more like Brian T, they can refer to themselves as the Head of Household, Garage, Bathroom, BBQ or whatever they like.
they can also call themselves men then too.
the truth is though, if you have a true marriage, there is no boss. you have a partnership. if you want to be the Head of Something, form a company and hire a secretary.|||Well, if your a funditard then youd probably have a hard time living down the sneers of the other funditards BUT a truly spiritual person wouldnt care either way.|||Now that is refreshing! A man who obviously thinks he's a Christian and is trotting out an idea which so called Christians frequently use as an argument against Islam!
Or maybe you support the BNP/Nazi idea of Kinder, K眉che, Kirche (Children, kitchen, church)?|||As a Christian, I believe in general it is the man's responsibility to bring in the money for the support of his family. However, God's plan and purpose for each of us is not the same. So, it would depend on the individual, and where that individual believes God wants them to be. I believe we are living in the grace of God. God sent his ONLY son to die on the cross so that we will be saved. It is NOT by WORKS, but by GRACE that we are saved. Once you have understood that, and believed it, then you will surely not rise to any criticism for being a house husband.
If you believe that God has a plan and purpose for your life, then you will understand me when I say that being a house husband at this point in time could simply be a season in his life - A preparation for something bigger yet to come.
Live in the moment, and dont look too deeply into things. In all your ways acknowledge HIM and HE will direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:6)
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%203:5-6;%26amp;version=31;|||And i am guessing you are NOT married right? stop trolling in the name of religion.|||yawn
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